The Mayor of Kumasi, Richard Boadi, has issued a strong warning to cattle rearers, stating that, effective May 1, any stray cow in the city will be seized and slaughtered.
Boadi added that the slaughtered cows would be fed to inmates at the Kumasi Central Prison.
He made the disclosure in a press conference held in Kumasi on Friday.
According to the mayor, the decision was a response to the growing problem of cattle roaming freely and disrupting public life—an issue he described as unworthy of the city’s stature.
He urged all herders to keep their animals out of the metropolis to avoid severe consequences.
“There is another thing I will want you to help me look at. If you have cattle and if they stray in the vicinity of KMA, be assured that from May 1, they will be killed and given to Kumasi Central Prison for food. Especially the route from the airport through to Manhyia Palace.
“I cannot sit for visitors come to Kumasi [and] from the airport to Manhyia, and all they see are faecal matter from cattle.”
The West African Examinations Council has revoked the licences of 574 secondary schools in Nigeria.
WAEC announced that the affected schools were found to have committed examination malpractices.
The examination body also stated that the schools will not be allowed to conduct examinations even as the 2025 West African Senior School Certificate Examination, commences from Thursday, April 24, 2025.
This was disclosed by the Head of WAEC’s National Office, Dr. Amos Dangut, during a press briefing on Thursday at the headquarters of the examination body in Lagos.
Dangut said WAEC had forwarded the list of the affected schools to the Nigerian government.
“This year, we have shared with them a total of 574 schools that have had their recognition withdrawn, and that is also going to be the same for all examining bodies.
“So, these are those that have got their license revoked as far as the examination centre is concerned. So we will not conduct examinations there. We don’t know them as far as conducting examinations,” Dangut said.
For the forthcoming 2025 WASSCE, Dangut stated that 1,973,253 candidates registered for the examination from 23,554 schools.
Speaking further, he said 979,228 males and 994,025 females would take part in the examination.
Barcelona’s Polish forward #09 Robert Lewandowski celebrates after Dortmund’s Algerian defender #05 Ramy Bensebaini (not pictured) scored an own goal, 2-1, during the UEFA Champions League quarter-final second leg football match between BVB Borussia Dortmund and FC Barcelona in Dortmund, western Germany on April 15, 2025. (Photo by INA FASSBENDER / AFP)
Barcelona’s Robert Lewandowski was diagnosed with a hamstring injury on Sunday and is set to miss the Copa del Rey final and Champions League semi-final, according to Spanish media reports.
The 36-year-old Polish forward, Barcelona’s top goalscorer with 40 goals across all competitions, came off during his team’s 4-3 La Liga win over Celta Vigo on Saturday.
“Tests carried out on Sunday have confirmed that first-team player Robert Lewandowski has a semitendinosus injury in his left thigh,” said Barcelona in a statement, without specifying how long he would be sidelined for.
Spanish media reported Lewandowski could be out for three weeks, meaning he would not be available next Saturday as Barcelona face Real Madrid in the Copa final in Seville.
The La Liga leaders also host Inter Milan on April 30 in the Champions League semi-final first leg and visit the Italians on May 6.
Lewandowski is set to miss league games against Mallorca on Tuesday and Valladolid on May 3, with a potential return against Real Madrid on May 11, a match which could decide the title race.
Barcelona, who won the Spanish Super Cup in January, are chasing a potential quadruple and are in the Champions League semi-finals for the first time since 2019.
Coach Hansi Flick has used Ferran Torres through the middle as a replacement for Lewandowski before and has also experimented with Dani Olmo operating as a false nine.
The National Drug Law Enforcement Agency on Sunday said its operatives intercepted 500 grammes of cocaine concealed in the pages of religious books and bound for Saudi Arabia at a courier company located in Lagos State.
The NDLEA Director of Media and Advocacy, Femi Babafemi, disclosed this in a statement released on Sunday, noting that the illicit drug was intercepted on April 15.
He added that 2.8 kilogrammes of cannabis and a strain of Loud were intercepted at another courier firm in Lagos on the same day.
Babafemi said, “Operatives of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency have intercepted a shipment of cocaine concealed in 20 sets of religious books going to Saudi Arabia.
“The cocaine consignment, consisting of 20 parcels with a total weight of 500 grammes and buried in the pages of the religious books, was uncovered at a courier company in Lagos on Tuesday, April 15, 2025, when NDLEA officers of the Directorate of Operations and General Investigation were searching through export cargoes going to Saudi Arabia at the logistics firm.
“At another courier company the same day, NDLEA officers intercepted five parcels of Loud, a strong strain of cannabis weighing 2.8 kilogrammes, hidden in a carton coming from the United States of America.”
Babafemi also disclosed that no fewer than 10 suspects were arrested during various operations carried out by its operatives across the country.
Among the suspects was a suspected bandit supplier identified as Muhammad Mohammed, who was arrested in Kano, while another suspect, Mohammed Abdulaziz, was arrested with 68 blocks of skunk.
He continued, “In Kano, a 22-year-old supplier of illicit substances to bandits, Muhammad Mohammed, has been arrested by NDLEA operatives on patrol along Bichi-Kano Road while heading to Katsina with 277 ampoules of pentazocine injection tied to his thigh and private part with Sellotape.
“He was intercepted on Sunday, April 13, while another suspect, Mohammed Abdulrahman Abdulaziz, 43, was nabbed the same day at Research Rimin Kebe area of Nasarawa, Kano, with 68 blocks of skunk, a strain of cannabis, weighing 30kg.”
Babafemi added that “not less than 557.2kg of skunk, 5.6kg of methamphetamine and 29.8 grammes of heroin were recovered from a house along Major General Isaiah Allison Street, Opolo, Yenagoa, Bayelsa State, where four suspects were arrested when NDLEA operatives raided the premises on Wednesday, April 16.
“The four suspects arrested during the raid include: Sarimiye Suwa Kurtis, 46; Roland Prosper, 34; Sarimiye Tare Paul, 45; and Fidelis Ugbesla, 46.”
Babafemi said that a driver was arrested after its operatives recovered about 1,100kg of skunk from a delivery van in Lagos, while one Ike Ani was arrested in Kaduna at a hideout with 31,950 pills of Tramadol 225mg and Diazepam.
The NDLEA spokesperson stated that three suspects, Abubakar Ibrahim, 50; Mustapha Aliyu, 32; and Bashar Lawali, 28, were arrested in connection with the seizure of 97kg of skunk concealed in sacks of charcoal in Kebbi.
“A 48-year-old, Okafor Marcel, was nabbed with 11.5kg of skunk at Abatete, Anambra State, while NDLEA operatives in Osogbo, Osun State, on Tuesday, April 15, arrested Ajala Mercy, 27, with 43 litres of skushi, a mixture of blackcurrant, cannabis, and opioids, recovered from her room at Dada Estate, Halleluyah area of the state capital.
“Two cannabis farms in Egbeta Forest, Ovia North East LGA, Edo State, were raided by NDLEA operatives, who destroyed 3,717.8625kg of the psychoactive plant on 1.487145 hectares and recovered 136.5kg of processed cannabis.
“At the Tincan seaport in Lagos, a suspect, Basorun Usman Kayode, 40, who had been at large for two years, was arrested by NDLEA officers in connection with the seizure of 107kg of Loud imported from Canada in 2023, while another suspect, Dauda Yakubu, who distributes illicit drugs within the seaport community, was arrested by a team of operatives on Monday, April 14,” Babafemi concluded.
The Edo State Government said it registered over 9,000 Certificates of Occupancy between February and April 17, 2025.
The Managing Director of Edo State Geographic Information Service, Dr Tony Ikpasaja, disclosed this when journalists paid him a courtesy visit on Easter Sunday.
Ikpasaja said the feat was achieved despite the challenges of shutting down the agency’s digital system by the employees of the immediate past Government of Godwin Obaseki to run the agency’s operations.
The EdoGis boss, who Governor Okpebholo appointed in January 2025, said the feat was achieved within the period with the new software, as against 1000 recorded by the immediate past government between 2023 and February 2025.
He disclosed that the agency has recently purchased more sophisticated equipment to improve its productivity and to ensure that applicants’ applications are attended to as quickly as possible.
He also disclosed that the agency under his leadership inherited over 7500 files that were not attended to. He said the files belong to applicants who want their land registered and captured in the EdoGis database.
Ikpasaja, who assured applicants that their files for Certificates of Occupancy would be treated and captured into the database, advised property and land owners to legalise their property.
He noted that any landed property that is without a Certificate of Occupancy is not a legal asset.
He said, “As of today, I can boldly tell you that we have captured and processed over 9000 files of Certificate of Occupancy. We have also been signing and issuing Certificates of Occupancy.
“When I came on board, I met about 7500 total files of applicants that were not attended to. It is disheartening that people will pay for registration and just leave the files there unattended.
“Within the next few weeks or months, we will clear the applications we have, and we will give Nigerians and Edo people their Certificates of Occupancy.
“I also want to assure those who have applied that as far as their certificate is concerned, it is here and being processed, your land is secure because, by our system, nobody can come and process that particular land again.
“The kind of restructuring we did was a total departure from what it used to be before, or what we met on the ground, because the staff are operating on international best practices.
“What we have now today does not give you room to keep files because we are working accordingly to the World Bank standards, which is the international best practices,” he said.
The Ogun State Chapter of the Nigeria Union of Pensioners, on Sunday, praised Governor Dapo Abiodun for the approval and release of N6.7bn for the payment of the backlog of gratuities to pensioners in the state.
The chairman of the union, Waheed Oloyede, disclosed this in a statement released on Sunday.
Oloyede said that while N3.2bn is allocated for the retirees of the state government, the remaining N3.5bn is for retired local government workers.
He stated, “Your Excellency, this gesture demonstrates your commitment to the welfare of senior citizens whose entitlements have been denied over the years.
“We are deeply grateful for the kindness and generosity you have shown towards us, the elderly.
“No doubt, the payment of the gratuities will bring great relief and comfort to many individuals and families.”
The union also took the opportunity to express its gratitude to the governor for the prompt and timely payment of monthly pensions, which has helped pensioners in planning for sustainable health services and other welfare packages.
Oloyede said, “We also express immense appreciation for the various palliatives and subsidies directed towards us pensioners in the recent past to cushion the effects of the present harsh economic realities.”
However, the union appealed to the governor to approve the long-awaited consequential increase in pensions, in line with the 2019 Federal Government circular on pension adjustments.
Oloyede noted that although Abiodun had set up a committee to look into the matter in July 2022, the adjustment had yet to be implemented.
He said the increase would further ease the economic pressure on pensioners as the prices of essential goods and medication continue to rise.
The union praised Abiodun’s leadership and urged him to remain committed to improving the lives of retirees and residents of the state.
The Socio-Economic Rights and Accountability Project has sued the National Broadcasting Commission over what it described as the “arbitrary and unlawful” ban of Eedris Abdulkareem’s song Tell Your Papa.
This was disclosed in a statement signed by SERAP’s Deputy Director, Kolawole Oluwadare, and made available to journalists on Sunday.
The song, reportedly critical of President Bola Tinubu’s economic policies, was banned from broadcast for allegedly violating “public decency standards”.
In the suit marked FHC/L/CS/797/2025 and filed at the Federal High Court, Lagos, SERAP is seeking an order to set aside NBC’s directive, describing it as inconsistent with the rights to freedom of expression, access to information, and media freedom.
SERAP is also seeking “an order of perpetual injunction restraining the NBC — whether jointly or severally — or any other authority, person, or group of persons from preventing the airing of Eedris Abdulkareem’s song on all broadcast stations and similar media platforms in Nigeria.”
Additionally, SERAP is seeking “a declaration that NBC’s directive, issued via a letter dated April 9, 2025, to all broadcast stations in Nigeria banning the airing of Eedris Abdulkareem’s song, is unlawful and inconsistent and incompatible with the rights to freedom of expression, access to information, and media freedom.”
Filed by Oluwadare and two other lawyers, the suit states that the ban fails the legal tests of necessity and proportionality, and violates Nigerian and international laws on freedom of expression.
SERAP added, “Section 3.1.8 of the Nigeria Broadcasting Code is overbroad and excessively intrusive, as it breaches the fundamental rights to freedom of expression, access to information, and media freedom.”
The organisation maintained that artistic expression plays a critical role in democratic discourse and that censorship stifles social debates and undermines democratic values.
“The ban on Eedris’ song fails to meet the requirements of legality, necessity, and proportionality.
“The requirement of necessity also implies an assessment of the proportionality of the grounds, with the aim of ensuring that the excuse of ‘objectionable nature’ and ‘public decency’ is not used as a pretext to ban Eedris’ song and unduly intrude upon Nigerians’ human rights,” SERAP stated.
The statement added, “Article 19(1) of the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights establishes the right to freedom of opinion without interference. Article 19(2) establishes Nigeria’s obligations to respect ‘the right to freedom of expression,’ which includes the freedom to seek, receive, and impart information, regardless of frontiers.”
“Under Article 19(3), restrictions on the right to freedom of expression must be ‘provided by law’, and necessary ‘for respect of the rights or reputations of others’ or ‘for the protection of national security or of public order (ordre public), or of public health and morals’.”
Super Eagles striker Victor Osimhen has reached an agreement with Manchester United over personal terms ahead of a potential summer move, according to Turkish journalist Serdar Çelikler.
“Victor Osimhen has reached an agreement with Manchester United. But there is also the club side of the matter,” Çelikler said on a podcast.
The Nigeria international, currently on loan at Turkish giants Galatasaray, has been in sensational form this season, netting 29 goals and providing six assists in 34 appearances across all competitions.
United’s immediate focus in the transfer market is reportedly recruiting a top striker given Rasmus Hojlund’s dismal form this season, with the Dane managing a meagre three Premier League goals. New head coach Ruben Amorim is understood to want the struggling forward gone in the summer.
While the personal terms have reportedly been agreed, negotiations between United and Napoli regarding the transfer fee are still ongoing. Osimhen has a release clause worth €75 million (£63m), but reports suggest the Serie A giants are prepared to offer the 20-time English league champions a discount.
Juventus are also long-term admirers of the Nigerian hitman, but the Naples outfit have no intention to sell to a direct rival, which further strengthens United’s position in the race.
United’s chances of landing the prolific striker may ultimately depend on their Europa League fate, as Osimhen reportedly wants to play Champions League football next season. The Red Devils have kept backup options like Liam Delap and Jean-Philippe Mateta ready in case the deal falls through.
Turkish journalist Ali Naci Küçük had earlier revealed that the Premier League side has offered Osimhen a contract worth £ 660,000 a week before tax, which would make him the highest-paid player at Old Trafford.
“There is a high possibility that Osimhen will say goodbye (to Galatasaray), but there is no decision made at the moment,” Küçük said. “Juventus and Manchester United clearly want Osimhen. Juventus and Manchester’s offer is a net €20m (£660,000-a-week).”
Galatasaray, where Osimhen is currently enjoying his loan spell, remain eager to retain his services but are unlikely to meet his financial demands, with the striker reportedly asking for €15m from the Turkish club.
“Osimhen’s words do not mean that he will leave,” Galatasaray’s vice-president Ibrahim Hatipoglu said recently. “He said that Galatasaray will always be in his heart even if he leaves in the worst-case scenario, but he did not say that he would leave. We want him to stay with us.”
When questioned about his future last week, Osimhen remained coy, saying, “There are always rumours about me, of course. But I prefer to live in the moment. I am enjoying myself right now. I am enjoying both the club and my life here.”
The Nigerian striker joined Galatasaray on loan at the start of the season and has had a phenomenal campaign in Turkey, with the Istanbul club covering €6m of his €10-11m net annual salary, while Napoli pick up the remainder.
Grammy Award-winning artiste Damini Ogulu, popularly known as Burna Boy, has gifted ₦20 million to controversial singer Habeeb Okikiola, also known as Portable, following his victory over Speed Darlington in their celebrity boxing match.
Portable confirmed the generous gift in a post shared on Instagram on Saturday.
“₦20 million from Burna Boy. If you wanna be like Odogwu, can you do like Odogwu? God bless your family,” Portable wrote.
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PUNCH reports that Portable has been celebrating his win over rival Darlington Okoye, a.k.a. Speed Darlington, who has blamed his defeat in Saturday’s celebrity boxing clash on Portable’s alleged use of “juju” (charms).
Portable took to Instagram on Saturday to revel in his triumph at the Chaos in the Ring event, sanctioned by the Nigeria Boxing Board of Control and held at the Balmoral Convention Centre in Lagos. He posted: “Champion forever. I believe in those who believe in me. Na God dey run am. Orilomo.”
Later that day, he shared another celebratory message on his Instagram story, writing: “Joy full my body, money don land.”
It is worth noting that Burna Boy and Speed Darlington have had a tense relationship.
In 2024, Speed Darlington accused Burna Boy of allegedly having an inappropriate connection with American rapper Diddy to secure his Grammy win.
Following that, Speed Darlington was arrested over allegations of defamation and cyberstalking against Burna Boy.
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Dr Moses Omole and his wife, Pastor Esther, speak to TEMITOPE ADETUNJI about the beauty of love, the strength of commitment, and the faith that have kept their marriage thriving for over five decades
Mutual trust made our relationship smooth – Dr Omole
How do you feel having spent over five decades with your wife?
I feel fulfilled. Everything has worked out well. Being married to my wife for over 50 years has been a blessing, and we thank God for everything. We had the resources to take care of ourselves, take care of our children, and manage other needs. I am grateful to God for everything, in all aspects of life.
Where are you from?
I am from the Ilaje area of Ilesa, in Osun State, while my wife is from Ekiti State. My father was a farmer and had four wives. My mother was the second wife. We all lived together in the same house: father, wives, and children. We were raised as one big family. When we reached school age, we were separated and sent to different schools.
My father trained me with all he had, sending me to school. When I needed further education, God provided support, and I continued my studies, eventually reaching the university level.
I am the first son, and I took on the responsibility of supporting my siblings after my father passed away. Before his death, he had done his best to support us. Afterwards, I started earning a small income, which allowed me to support my siblings. I thank God that they are all well-established now and can support themselves without depending on me.
How old was your father when he passed?
He was about 65 years old.
Can you share a bit about your career?
I came from a very poor background but later pursued education, completing secondary school and university. I attended Joseph Ayo Babalola University in Osun State and later pursued postgraduate studies abroad.
After leaving the university, I worked with the Ministry of Commerce and Industry and the Cocoa Research Institute of Nigeria in Ibadan, where I conducted research. Eventually, I moved to a private agricultural establishment. Later, I became a lecturer at Joseph Ayo Babalola University, where I taught for many years before retiring.
How many years did you spend teaching at the university?
I spent about 18 years teaching an agricultural course.
How did you meet your wife?
We grew up together. I first knew her when she was in primary school. We were innocent children at the time, not knowing we would end up together. She was my younger sister’s friend, and that was how I got to know her.
What attracted you to her, and how did you ask her to marry you?
She and my younger sister were friends, which brought us closer. Over time, we decided to marry each other. I naturally fell in love with her. We shared mutual trust and understanding, which made our relationship work smoothly. There was never any regret.
What year did you get married?
We got married in 1971.
The first few years of marriage often involve adjustments. What changes did you have to adapt to?
Honestly, I didn’t face any major challenge. We were both young when we started, and I was 29 years old. We understood each other well, adjusted easily, and there were no regrets.
How old are you now?
I am 83 years old.
What life lessons have you learnt from childhood until now?
I have learnt many lessons, but I am especially thankful for the kindness of God, which I always recognise. I also appreciate how some people simply like me without even knowing me. Life hasn’t always been easy, but it has been manageable. People have been benevolent towards me, and I thank God for everything.
What were your roles in the home?
I was focused on research, which often occupied my time. My wife, being a natural teacher, was also busy with her responsibilities. We shared experiences and responsibilities at home, and we’ve never had any issues. She has always been very cooperative, and although we may not have been as wealthy as others, we’ve never struggled.
How old is your wife?
She is 80 years old.
What has kept your marriage strong for over five decades, considering that many marriages struggle in the early years?
I believe it’s the mercy of God and our understanding of each other. We’ve never had serious arguments or disagreements. We’ve always trusted and supported each other.
How did you feel when you had your first child?
As a newly married man, it was a fantastic experience. My first child is a boy, and we were overjoyed. We love him dearly, as well as our other children.
How many children do you have?
We have five children.
As a grandfather, how do you feel seeing your grandchildren?
My grandchildren are amazing, likeable children. Although they don’t live with me, I feel close to them, especially since we can talk regularly over the phone or see each other on video calls via WhatsApp.
What do you consider your greatest achievement?
My greatest achievement is that everything has gone well with me. I haven’t faced any major challenge or pressure in my marriage, and I’m grateful for that. I owe much of this to my wife, who has made me comfortable and supported me throughout our life together. I have no regrets, not even for a single moment.
How do you think marriages today compare to when you got married?
In today’s world, many couples focus on their careers and personal ambitions, which can sometimes detract attention from their marriage. In our case, our home and happiness were always our priorities, and we focused on our children.
Do you think marriages today are more difficult than when you got married?
I believe the focus has shifted towards chasing wealth and status. Many couples don’t prioritise their marriage, which I think is key to long-lasting happiness. In our case, our home and the well-being of our children came first.
You have been blessed with children and grandchildren. What values do you instil in your family that have helped shape them today?
I believe the value of hard work is essential, and I thank God that they have all achieved their goals. They are well-educated in their respective disciplines. They live independently and are self-made, fulfilling their responsibilities effectively. They are progressing both academically and in their careers. I have no problems at all. None of them has ever had any issue in my house.
With the economic situation, what advice would you give newlyweds regarding having children?
I would advise them to have only as many children as they can take care of—children they can manage well. This way, their resources will be enough for both the children and themselves. They should focus on their careers and perform their work diligently.
What has been the most rewarding aspect of parenting for you?
The most rewarding aspect is that children make their parents happy. All our children have gone through education, and they all have good jobs now. Some are in the professional field, including education, and they continue to teach and enjoy their careers. Since they started getting married, we have not had any problems to solve for them. God has been wonderful, and we give Him all the glory.
What does love mean to you now compared to when you first got married?
There is no difference.
For 54 years, how have you kept the spark alive in your marriage?
To me, it has always been the same since we started. Nothing has changed. We don’t quarrel or argue, and we continue to live happily, as God has provided for us.
In today’s world, many young people struggle with relationships and commitments. What advice would you give to young couples today?
Your relationship is first and foremost with your partner, whether your husband or wife. You should remain loyal and faithful to that relationship. I have never had any reason to quarrel or experience disagreement that led to separation—not even for a day. In fact, I always miss my wife whenever she’s out, and we are so connected that I always thank God for it.
What is the secret to a lasting and fulfilling marriage?
Trust your wife, and your wife should trust you. Also, don’t pursue things you cannot manage. Don’t chase after what you cannot easily achieve. Be satisfied with what you have, which is a gift from God. When you do this, you’ll have no problems. I’ve never had a quarrel.
What are your hopes and prayers for the years ahead in your marriage?
My prayers are for continued peace and happiness.
My husband’s humility endeared him to me – Pastor Omole
How would you describe your marriage of 54 years?
I would say all glory to God. It has been a time without regrets. We need to thank God for every day, every minute, every second; it has been God. Looking back at these 54 years—five whole decades—it’s clear that we cannot attribute our journey to our own wisdom or efforts. It can only be God. We see marriages collapsing all around us, but we can’t take credit for our own success. It has been God.
Both of you sound so healthy and sharp, even at this age. What’s the secret?
It’s just God. That’s all I can say. I gave my life to Jesus Christ at 19. One of the expatriates at St Margaret’s School, Ilesa, introduced me to the Scripture Union early in life. At a camp, I gave my life to Christ, and since then, God has led me.
Someone recently looked at me and said, ‘Wow, you’re 80?!’ I told him, ‘It’s not me. It’s not about what I eat.’ Yes, we eat simple food—beans, vegetables—but it is not about that. It’s about who I am in Christ. My faith has been my strength. It’s not my doing; it’s just God.
What would you say is your greatest achievement?
In education, I thank God for my father. Like my husband, I came from a humble background. We met in primary school—his younger sister was my friend. At that time, there was nothing romantic between us. We were so young. It wasn’t until much later that our relationship evolved.
When we started courting, he was abroad for seven years.
After I left school, I went to the University of Ibadan and later into teaching. When he returned and pursued his second degree at the University of Newcastle, I travelled with our first son to join him. I completed my postgraduate diploma in education before we returned to Nigeria.
Career-wise, I rose to the peak of my profession as the principal of St Margaret’s, the oldest school in Osun State and my alma mater.
My foundation, built by God, shaped every other aspect of my life, and that’s why I am where I am today. I went into nursing for a few months before transitioning into teaching. I had to leave nursing because I couldn’t bear seeing people suffer, cry, or go through pain. It just wasn’t in my nature. So, I left. I went back to teaching, and I loved it. Ever since then, I’ve been in teaching.
What attracted you to him and made you feel he was the one?
As I said, we knew each other from childhood, not as future spouses, but because his sister was my friend. Later, when he attended Ilesa Grammar School and I was at St Margaret’s, we would greet each other like siblings.
Much later, circumstances brought us together, and we started courting. By then, I knew his background, his home, and his values. He was humble, pleasant, gentle, and unassuming. He came from a decent family, and I had visited their home in Ere, where they lived.
At first, my Ekiti parents were hesitant. I attended St Martin’s Primary School in Ijebu-Ijesa before moving to St Margaret’s. Afterwards, I went to the University of Ibadan, completed my studies, and returned to teach at St Margaret’s.
When he proposed, my parents were reluctant because they wanted me to marry someone from Ekiti, not Ilesa. Since I was born in Ilesa, they wanted to maintain our Ekiti identity. But God had other plans. Eventually, my father not only accepted my husband but also became close friends with him.
Being a pastor and a wife, how do you create that balance?
We are both people of faith, so it wasn’t really difficult. I am a fully ordained pastor in the Redeemed Christian Church of God. My husband, though not a pastor, is the Baba Ijo in his church. He comes from an African Church background and currently serves as the Baba Ijo in his village church. So yes, he is a man of faith.
How has your faith played a role in your marriage?
Tremendously! Without our faith, I don’t know where we would be. As I said, marriage is not always a bed of roses. There were tough times, but with God, nothing is impossible. Through prayer and faith, we overcame challenges.
What should young women look out for before getting married?
These days, I’m amazed at how people approach marriage. In our time, parents were deeply involved. Today, that’s no longer the case, and it’s one of the major problems we see.
If they are people of faith, then God must be their first consultant. But many leave Him out, date carelessly, and start where they should end. Physical intimacy before marriage diminishes the excitement and purpose of the wedding night. As a matter of fact, my husband and I married as virgins.
How long did you date before getting married?
We dated for about eight or nine years. He was in Russia for seven years for his first degree while I was at the University of Ibadan. After he returned, we courted for about a year and a half before finally deciding to marry.
How did you keep the relationship strong?
We embraced effective communication. Despite the fact that there were no phones in those days, my husband is a great writer. He wrote to me consistently, and that kept the love alive.
